“It’s your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, But no one can walk it for you…”
~ Rumi
It is alright
You are alone. And it is alright.
The above quote merely means that you have to take responsibility for each and every aspect of your life, your current physical, financial, and emotional situation.
I know it seems logical and easy to put the blame for your situation on someone else.
And you may even be able to argue your point with valid reasons to prove that.
But if you really think about it. I mean think really hard, think past your excuses, and reasons.
You will see how you have let the situation happen to you, how your own weakness, and not taking responsibility for yourself is the reason for you being where you are.
People in your life, your family, your friends, are all fighting their own fights.
They can only walk with you, so to speak. But they can not live your life for you.
Managing Expectations
The reason for most of the problems in a relationship is expectations. If you take away the expectations from the relationship and just enjoy the relationship, you will experience true happiness.
Realize that you only have a little time on Earth, so enjoy the short time you have to walk together.
You should learn to see the world as a reflection of what you are.
Instead of reacting to the world, you should observe it.
Observe the way people behave with you, the situations you find yourself in, the traffic jams, angry spouse, uncooperative work environment, unsatisfactory financial situation, etc.
Then think about it. Why is this happening to you ?
Think about what you can do about it ?
You will soon realize that reacting to a situation is very easy. But to take a step back, to observe it, and take appropriate action to rectify it, is more challenging.
And this is the only way you can take responsibility for your life and move it in the direction you desire.
And if you take up this challenge, you will able to build the life of your dreams.
You will see that you are no longer affected by what people say or think about you.
You will observe that the world has become a friendlier place, which respects you and cooperates with you to realize each and every desire you have.
Take responsibility for your life and take action.
Wishing you the strength and wisdom to face the challenge, and become the person you were always meant to be. 🙂
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